I (30sF) and my husband (30sM) live in a large house that is subdivided into 3 units. We live in the front house with roommates, another similarly aged couple. We have lived here for almost a year. Our upstairs neighbors, that live in the apartment in the back of the house, are a young couple in their 20s currently in college. They frequently have loud parties on nights where the rest of us have to work the next day, and they argue like no people I have ever met before. We live in a hot place, and 10 months out of the year we all have our windows open at all times. We don't have AC. We listen to them argue on the daily. I won't get into the details of that, but it's awful. Recently it has gotten a lot worse and from what we can hear, has escalated to a point that we should be more concerned. A couple weeks ago cops and paramedics were called to a respond to a situation. We have tried to reach out to them and be friends. Invited them over for drinks and dinner. They have made it clear they aren't interested in our friendship or being in community with the others living on the property. The rest of us feel they are ruining the vibe of what could be a nice, collaborative community living experience. We also fear for the woman. But she has made it clear she isn't interested in our friendship or support, and wishes to remain with her boyfriend. I am pretty sure the boyfriend doesn't technically live there and isn't on the lease. I'm not entirely sure what our landlord can even do about that, but I feel like contacting them is my only option right now. If she kicks them out or doesn't renew their lease, I fear their situation will get worse. But also, the rest of us can't continue to live with the constant background dialogue of their toxicity. WIBTA if I report them to the landlord?