So me (14f) and my sister (24f) are not that close and we never have been and when she fell pregnant last year we got along even less.we don’t get on mainly for the age difference but we have very different music taste and style; she’s also homophobic and I’m her idea of hell like she says. May I just add my sister is lazy and she’s selfish but if I were to tell her we would get in a massive argument and I don’t want anymore in my family. I’ve never been that fussed about babies mainly cuz I’m young and haven’t really grown up around kids.i also don’t like the noise and for other personal reasons I never want children. A few months ago she had her child and lemme get this straight-I DONT HAVE ANYTHING AGAINST MY NEPHEW BUT THE PEOPLE AROUND HIM- he seems like a cute baby and everything but I just don’t get the hype around kids and all of the adults in my family shout at me and say I need to have some love for my sister who’s gone through a lot and is a lovely person (she’s not btw). One day I was at home in my room having some time to myself cuz I was overwhelmed and my sister said that I hate my nephew and that I need to pay more attention to him-I love my nephew and I show my affection to him in a different way…now she doesn’t let me near him cus she thinks I’m just gonna be negative towards him-AITA