So this sounds dumb written out but it’s been eating at me. I (28M) share an apartment with my friend (29M). We split rent, utilities, all that. Generally we get along fine. The one thing that drives me insane is how he leaves the TV volume. I don’t know if it’s an OCD thing or just a personal quirk, but I have to have the TV volume on an even number or a multiple of 5. It just feels “right.” Otherwise it distracts me and I can’t focus on what I’m watching. I’ve explained this to him multiple times, politely, not as a joke. I said, “Hey man, if you could just leave it on even numbers or 5’s, I’d appreciate it.” He laughed the first time but agreed. Except he never does. He’ll leave it on 17, or 23, or sometimes 19. Last night we were watching a movie and he left it on 21. I asked him to bump it to 20 or 22 and he rolled his eyes and said I was being ridiculous. I snapped and told him it’s basic respect, I don’t ask for much, and he knows it bothers me. He told me I’m acting controlling over “a number on a screen.” Now it’s super tense between us. He thinks I’m being insane, and I think he’s deliberately ignoring something I’ve been upfront about that costs him literally nothing to fix. So… AITA for snapping at my friend over TV volume numbers?