I'm not the A hole, am I? I have 3 kids and a husband. I got a 20 minute notice that my husband's cousin, wife, daughter, son and mother in law and aunt were coming over at about 8:30 pm. Instead of scrambling to clean up, or prepare to entertain them, I retreated to my room and got under the covers. He's not upset. The kids played with their cousins and I got some much needed horizontal time. The adults sounded like they had a nice time chatting and what not. Am I missing something?? Is this how we do visits now? They low key ruined our Friday family unwind and popcorn movie night.