I (20 M) stay with my (19 F) girlfriend 3–4 nights a week at her apartment. I’m only ever there when my girlfriend is home, and I’m not around during the day it’s literally just nights. I also don’t leave my stuff lying around (I used to have a toothbrush there but even took that out). One of her roommates has a big issue with me. She’s very religious and doesn’t like that my girlfriend and sleep next to each other. She also tends to be controlling she’s told my girlfriend she can’t have guests after 8 p.m., that she can’t have her TV on at night, etc. She’s even said things like, “I’m a grad student, and I need these things for my program.” To me this comes off as I have more going on than you keep in mind my gf is a undergrad. The thing is, she doesn’t even follow her own “rules.” She breaks them whenever it suits her and often talks over my gf to push what she wants. She says she is compromising but doesn’t listen to my gf whenever she (my gf) is telling her (the roommate) about her wants and needs It feels like she just wants to have all the power in the apartment and uses excuses to get her way. Meanwhile, I’m not causing problems i don’t hang around during the day, I don’t eat their food, I don’t bother anyone. My girlfriend and I are just trying to see each other without stepping on toes. My gf made a similar post the other night but I wanted to make my own. So, AITA for continuing to stay at my girlfriend’s place a few nights a week even though her roommate doesn’t like it, given that she’s also controlling and breaks her own rules?