My aunts are upset at me for trying to upstage the annual family “girl’s trip.” We have this thing where on Labor Day weekend, the men go fishing in Puget Sound and the women go and do their own thing. Usually it’s something like sightseeing, going to see a show or kayaking. But in the last 15+ years, it’s been things like mini golf or shopping. I never enjoyed these “girls trips” growing up because I always thought it wasn’t fair the boys got to do something fun and adventurous. And several of my younger cousins (ages between 10 to 28) agree. So when my Aunt Linda said that we were going to go to Port Angeles for “sight seeing,” my cousins were upset and annoyed. One of them even asked why can’t she go with her uncle and brother on the fishing trip. So I searched around and found a hiking tour group. It’s not much, but the cousins were receptive to the idea. Aunt Linda is pissed because she thinks I’m trying to hijack the trip behind her back. She said that it’s not fair for the older relatives who aren’t as mobile, as well as another relative with cerebral palsy. The cousins and I don’t want to sit around while the boomers are shopping and talking smack about their husbands. We want a fun trip like the boys for once. My aunts and several other relatives think the girls trip should be what it’s always been, relaxing. It’s only me and the younger ones who want something fun. And of course, I’m being accused of ruining everyone’s weekend. AITA?