My wife was pissed off last night from an email she received. After she’d read it to me, something I thought would take a load off since she’d verbalised it, she kept scrolling through her phone, still stewing over the email. Knowing this, I suggested it might be best if she put her phone down and tried to get some sleep, especially since I knew it would keep playing on her mind, but that continuing to look at her phone wouldn’t be doing her favours. Her anger instantly switched over to me, saying that she didn’t appreciate me trying to manage her, and that my suggesting was really about me, not being able to sleep when I know she’s awake next to me. That last part is absolutely true, but it had nothing to do with my suggestion. I simply knew that she was unlikely to get much sleep with the email on her mind, so trying to get as much as possible would be beneficial. She’s still pissed at me this morning, and I believe that’s very unfair. All I was doing was looking out for her, but she’s saying she hates it when I ask her to put her phone down, like I’m not considering her feelings of wanting to stay awake longer. (I’ve asked her to do this a few times, but it really only happens maybe once a month) So, AITA?