My (35f) fiancé (30m) depends on me for transportation. He has never held a driver’s license, and does not want to due to anxiety issues. He’s also used to living in urban and suburban areas, while we currently live in the rural area I grew up in. Our apartment is a 15 minute drive through cornfields away from his work. He works in the seat of one county, and we live in an unincorporated community just across the county line. The county seat is reasonably walkable, especially with him working just a few blocks from the courthouse square and less than a mile from the library. A (formerly close) friend of mine lives next door to us, in the same apartment building and works less than half a mile away from my fiancé’s place of work. Up until the current schedule week, I had been working quite close by as well, and would always take my lunch break a couple hours later than I would like and drive my fiancé home. This often resulted in me being 5 up to even 15 minutes late from my lunch break, but my employer was very accommodating. However, the job was in retail and on top of that was a thrift store dealing in used items that agitated my allergies. About 2 weeks ago, I accepted a position as a home health aid. I’m expected to work for 2 hours after my fiancé’s shifts end. Our nextdoor neighbor has previously offered to pick him up and drive him home from work, and I verified that this offer was still on the table before taking the job. My fiancé does not want to ride home with her. He doesn’t really know her (although he has met her at least twice) and is socially anxious. He does know that we have a bit of a complicated history with her always being generous with offers to help, but not always speaking kindly of me to others. In other words, she has a history of being a bit two-faced. I feel like it shouldn’t be a huge deal as it is a simple 15 minute drive home and she doesn’t expect any payment or favors in return. He says he will probably just hang out at shops on the square or at the library, but has also said that he will likely eventually accept the rides home because hanging around town for 2 hours after an 8-hour shift is not ideal either. He feels that I’m screwing him over, but my retail job only allowed me full time hours on an 80-day period to help me out, and would have soon reverted back to 29 hours per week. When my hours went back down, he would have had to wait one hour after his shift ended because I would not be able to take a 30-45 minute break an hour before my shift was scheduled to end. The new job also offers health insurance and I expect it will be much easier on my mental health as I will be working with one client (and sometimes their family) rather than dozens of people throughout the day. Fiancé is not at all open to using a motorized bicycle or taking out a loan for a moped. Am I the A-hole for making him choose between waiting around for 2 hours after shift or accepting rides from an acquaintance he doesn’t like?