Repost because I didn’t know there was a chat bot to respond to first.. also made an edit. I have a friend that I consider very close and she’s expresses mutual feelings. One particular day we had plans to meet up at her house, catch up, hang out, and talk about a business idea. I expressed to her I was really tired but I wasn’t going to go back on my word, and I would still come. I live in LA and with traffic it took me a little over an hour to get there. At some point she got a FaceTime from a coworker. She took the call set up her phone and got cozy and had a conversation that lasted 20 minutes before I just decided to leave because as I said I was already tired. She said ok. So I grabbed my things and left. The next morning it still bothered me so I text her and told her exactly this, “Morning friend, I had a message typed and it didn’t send. I do want to address how I felt about yesterday. Normally I let stuff go but moving forward in my journey I want to honor how I feel. I thought it was a little rude for you to carry on your conversation with your coworker while you had company. A little consideration for our friend time would be appreciated. Lmk your thoughts on it. I hope you have a great day! ❤️” Her response was “well you should have said something last night instead of leaving and I’m having a great day and will continue to. I’m not the one who’s normally on the phone and I’ve never felt the need to address something and if I did I did it in a playful way but noted.” Which I can understand I could have said something the day before. For more context because I can see the questions coming about what she said- there are times when I’m on the phone BUT I always tell her hold on it’s work or family calling and if it’s not important I verbalize that I’m with a friend and will call back. She always takes calls with no acknowledgment that she’s with someone or no communication with me like “hold on” and she will carry on her conversations. Which is why I decided to say something because I really didn’t appreciate it this time. So here the actual issue. Her being on the phone wasn’t that big a deal but I think as friends we should be able to express ourselves,in a respectful manner of course. Ever since I said that to her, her responses to my texts are dry. Not like the normal conversation. I asked her if she/we’re ok and she said yeah. I tried to continue and act normal on my end because I really felt normal. Now it seems hardly a friendship on her end. So, AITA? Or should I have just let it go like I normally do? Cuz you know, pick your battles??? lol