My friend (19F) has been talking to this guy (19F) for less than a month (they met through a mutual friend and they really hit it off). She constantly would talk about how good looking he is and how sweet he is to her. Today, our friend group met up and she told us how she’d been crying over the fact that he hadn’t been texting with the same energy (he told her he was trying to work on himself after coming back from his holiday last week) and about how she went through his following and saw he would follow random girls and then if they didn’t follow him back, he’d quickly unadd them. She would also make fun of the girls, calling them ugly, easy and butterfaces (2 of them had bikinis on in their pfps). I told her that whilst I agreed that he wasn’t as energetic as before, it was a bit harsh to slut shame them. She asked me why I was defending him and a bunch of girls I don’t know and I told her that it’s not that I’m trying to defend him, I was just telling her to stop making those little side comments. She rolled her eyes and told me ‘whatever’ and then continued her rant about him. She later texted me apologising for her attitude but she didn’t appreciate me not ‘standing up for her’. So AITA?