I told my mom that my food timings aren’t fixed because of my work schedule, and that she doesn’t have to keep food for me all the time. I prefer doing things on my own terms. My parents live about 10 minutes away, but if I calculate the whole process of leaving, going there, eating, and coming back, it takes me roughly an hour. On top of that, I have to mentally shift gears every time, which isn’t always easy. Yesterday I asked her to save a particular dish for me because I planned to have it today. But I woke up late and honestly don’t feel like going home, doing the whole process, and then coming back. I feel like I should just grab something nearby instead. The problem is, my mom often gives me emotional guilt trips about it, saying things like “you’ll miss this when it’s gone” or reminding me that “there are people starving out there.” It makes me feel like I’m being ungrateful or selfish, even though I’ve already explained my situation to her. So, AITA here?