My wife and I have twin boys just over two and my mom (grandma) will not stop sending things for the kids. Toys, clothes, you name it. Sometimes she asks and most of the time she doesn’t. We don’t have a huge house, and we have to take a lot of time to rotate all the toys in and out of the garage because they have so many now. It has gotten to the point where we feel as though we can’t buy our own kids anything because they’re already getting so much from grandma. So we made a wishlist for the boys on Amazon and sent it to her and asked to only purchase things from the list, she claims she never saw it and proceeded to say she will get them whatever she wants whenever she wants because that’s what grandmas do. This escalated to us basically telling her that WE are their parents and WE need to be in charge of their toys and clothes/etc. Not that we don’t appreciate any of it, it’s just gotten out of hand. Then grandma stormed off saying we’ll have a nazi Christmas on those terms and is now refusing to speak to us.