Am I the whole for getting upset with my (25f) fiancé (28m) for wanting to skin test a medication he's highly likely allergic to? For some context, my fiance has Alpha Gal. (He was bitten by a tick) Which in short is a red meat allergy and various derivatives. Like for example, marshmallows are generally made with pork gelatin, pork is red meat, he cant have marshmallows. Hes expressed an interest in wanting to skin test medications to see if hes still allergic to them. Ive expressed support in doing this but first checking with a medical professional. He has a cousin who is a fair amount older than him and he trusts her a lot. She convinced him it was 100% okay to skin test a medication that his doctors told him he couldn't take. He cant take NSAIDs or aspirin. He said it "might be okay because its a different type of NSAID" which the body has been seen in some cases able to filter it out of itself. All I could see crossing my vision was me having to inject him with the epipen, drag him to the car, and race to the ER. So of course I got mad and we argued about it, he brought up me going to my best friend which, is another story for another day. I was both mad and scared about the situation. Yes, I was mad he took her opinion as gospel, shes not a medical professional (neither am I though) he said "well her brother has it so she knows it fairly well" no. She knows HIS condition. This is not a cookie cutter condition, he could die. If you have questions I'll be happy to answer them, I mightve overreacted. So in short, am I the asshole for the way I reacted? TIA Edit because I feel like its relevant: we have to watch where we get food, we have to ask what kind of oil things are fried in, where chicken or turkey is cooked and if its the same surface as anything red meat for it to be /cleaned/ he broke out once from and ibuprofen i accidentally dropped in our bed (in my defense I was very sick and in a lot of pain) and that was ENOUGH to scare the shit out of me. I can eat red meat but I threw it all out that /day/ I'll still eat it when we're out sometimes, I just don't kiss him until I've brushed my teeth.