Its my birthday today. Yesterday was family reunion and hubs worked. (He took the wrong day off when its been same day for years) he is off today. I took the kids to the reunion and we were out all day. Today I wanted to pick up the house and just do stuff at home. Chill. This is my normal. I dont wana go running around on my day. and im generally a home body. We have been married 11 years. He is now mad at me telling me i can spend the day alone because i didnt want to throw on clothes super fast and run out the house. I havent even showered after being at a park all day yesterday. He said 40 is supposed to be special insinuating like im ruining the day for everyone else...but it is my birthday. To me its just a day. I dont care about going and spending money. Id rather have my family help me at home and yard to do the things i cant do during the work week when i have toddlers up my bum and i work all week (remote).