Would like to start off by saying my brother is not mentioned a lot in this as he and my mom were gone for the summer and sorry for messy writing and "dragging it on" as this is my first time posting I (17f) live with my mom, dad, sister (21), and brother (14). Other than my mom and me, no one else helps clean anything (my dad doesn't count since he works 15-hour shifts) Over the summer, I was nannying from 5:30 am to 7 pm, sometimes 9 pm for a guy, and every day, I was cleaning at his house just to come home and clean up there. I would constantly ask my sister to help but she would always have excuses even though she had no job and would sit at home and game all day, sadly my brother is the same but he will occasionally take the trash out(to mention we are both depressed as it runs in the family but she is not on meds like i am and refuses to get help for it.) After cleaning both houses constantly for 2 months, she finally cleaned our kitchen a little bit. When I got home from work that day, she got mad at me for leaving a tea bag and half a lemon on the counter and yelled at me to clean up after myself, even though she never does herself because its "not her mess". It started to get to a point anytime I asked her to help because I was overwhelmed and stressed with my nannying job and the constant cleaning she would tell me that's it's my fault for staying at a job that's draining and I could quit anytime. Not nice words were said, and she basically told me to deal with it if I'm not gonna quit. I eventually did but she never helps and when she does have to, it turns in to a lot of complaining and procrastinating (a lot more to how she and my brother don't clean but this story would drag on if I put everything they don't do) so aita for wanting a little help so me and my mom don't have to do everything.