I'll start off by saying I'm not a very outgoing person, and while my family does get together sometimes, it's usually for a special occasion. We do occasionally do random dinners with my parents, or my sister. We'll go out somewhere to eat. Not a lot of big family gatherings. Meanwhile my girlfriends ,we live together, her family does dinners every other weekend. It's always about 13 to 15 people. We've been dating for a couple of years and I've been going pretty regularly. Although I do occasionally sit one one. However she will still go without me. On top of that she will sometimes spend time with them on her off time for other occasions. After I had taken several weekends off, some for valid reasons and some for just me, we recently had the opportunity to have dinner with just her parents. Something we don't often do. In fact we don't get a lot of one on one time with any individual family because it's always a group and that's fine, but anyway I wasn't up for it and it turned into an argument about how I don't like her family and how I'm going to HAVE to spend time with them if I'm going to be a part of it. We've had this talk before especially during the holidays where her family tends to want to spend a lot of time together. We made up and went to the dinner, it was find, I actually did have a good time despite being somewhat tired. I did make a point of telling her I would like to spend less time with her family and maybe just do date nights with her. I feel like her family always has reserved time, so if we don't make plans on an off weekend we won't be able to make plans at all. For ourselves or anyone else. AITA for suggesting this? Am I overreacting? After all it's only ever other weekend.