I 14f live in a small 2 bedroom 1 bedroom apartment with a family of 4 so of course there are times when 2 or more people need to go to the bathroom at the same time. Usually I just wait and only get a bit frustrated, admittedly my mom says I’m often rude when I don’t mean to be so maybe I say something that to me sounds fine but to my mom sounds like im being rude. Anyway recently my mom has spent large amounts of time in the bathroom, this gets hard when im about to shit all over the floor if u don’t get I the bathroom fast (I get sick often and usually this happens when I’m sick) I will be knocking on the door like a killer is changing me but all I hear from the other side is her laughing at her phone. I don’t even take my phone into the bathroom and that’s because I’m in so much of a rush it’s a drop everything and run situation and I don’t have time. I guess my mom dose but whatever, so im there knocking on the door because all I have gotten is her laughing and then she will hit me the “what is it (my name)” I tell her in as calm a voice I can because at this point I’m fighting for my life not to release it all and she just says “oh yea yea I’ll be out in a minute” this woman is not out in a minute she is out in 15 minutes. This got me thinking that I should time her if I was being dramatic then no harm done I won’t show it to her but if she is in there for as long as it feels on a constant basis then I will show her and bring it up to her, I will ask my sister to time me so I know if we spend about the same amount of time then I won’t show her I think this is ok but some of my friends sed that if I do this I am 100% the ass hole so. Am I the ass hole