So a little backstory. For the past 2 years my friends fly in for my birthday to celebrate this year. I’m incredibly grateful that they do it because I don’t really know a lot of people in my town and it’s nice to have a friend group to go out and do stuff. I love when they come down but it gets a little rowdy (my friends drink a lot and I still drink but I don’t drink a lot like them). Last year I had a few issues with one friend in particular. ( He sat on my couch soaking wet, would let the front door slam when entering and leaving my apartment this happened multiple times between the hours of 12AM-4AM ( my apartment complex walls were really thin and I could hear my neighbors doors when they closed it & I’ve always been mindful of my neighbors), my seat cushions were propped up and he sat on my couch with the cushions propped up. They would also stay up drinking until 5AM & then be too hingover to do anything the next morning. This year the same two friends wanted to come again and I let them know that my living situation has changed and we really need to be mindful because I rent one of my dads properties & I don’t want any issues with my neighbors or the neighborhood. They said everything would be fine it was going to be a chill weekend. Last night I was in my guest bathroom doing my makeup & I had alll my makeup spread out over the sink my friend came in and said he was going to brush his teeth so he started brushing his teeth he walked out of the bathroom so I continued to do my makeup. Then I’m standing in front of the bathroom my other friend is sitting on the toilet watching me do my makeup and my friend who was brushing his teeth storms in to spit his toothpaste out & in the process a brand new contour stick fallls into the sink while the water is running breaks in half he picks it up and throws puts it aside and continues to rinse his mouth. At this point I yell at him that he broke my contour stick ( I just bought it 2 weeks ago and it was my 3rd time using it & i also splurged on it which I normally don’t do) he got mad because I was yelling at him but I’m tired of my home and belongings being mistreated especially because I know that the things they do at my house they don’t do at their home. It became this whole big thing because I was annoyed & he was mad I yelled at him. Half my friends are saying I’m being overdramatic the other half agree that he’s in the wrong. My friends are saying I can melt it back together but honestly I don’t want to use it because it touched the sink and that’s just gross. I haven’t really talked to the friend who broke it he’s had an attitude with me and when we do talk we end up arguing. I’m still really upset about it because I feel like it comes down to the principle of things.